NICE GUYS FINISH LAST?

Okay I’ll be honest this is a bit of a bitch rant… so my apologies in advance… but every time I hear that phrase I seriously want to scream! Why? Because…. there are a TON of women who finish last as well… and you don’t hear us whining about it even though we are in fact women and that’s one of the things we are known for “whining”. But since I’m on the subject I’m going to take the rare opportunity to whine lol… I was one of those wall flower young ladies who kind of faded into the background and ate lunch by herself in high school… didn’t have my first boyfriend until I was 17… so at 25 I don’t have as much experience as others may, but I would say the vast majority of my experience in the dating/relationship world has been complete crap. I am far from perfect but the only time I’ve ever truly done anyone I’ve dated wrong was with my best friend of all people. EVERY single other relationship I’ve had… I have been lied to, cheated on, taken advantage of, and fallen for the same bullshit repeatedly… and I feel like I chose who I’m with so I can’t blame anyone but myself… but that is also why I’m not in a rush to get into a relationship again. I am sick of being under appreciated, and super generous both with love and financially and getting NADA in return. I don’t mean to toot my own horn but I’m well aware of the fact that I am marriage material… however, unlike many folks these days marriage is something very sacred to me and not something to be considered lightly. I will wait until I’m 40 if I have to! although I pray that someone finds me sooner than that, heck I may already know the person I will plan to spend the rest of my life with and not realize it. Only time will tell… but I won’t get too long with my writing because I have a few more things I want to discuss later this evening. Just wanted to get that off my chest for a moment… 🙂

5 thoughts on “NICE GUYS FINISH LAST?

    • Rachel Henry says:

      Thanks, I hope so… seems a lot of people are reading but very few have anything to say lol… it’s all good though 🙂

  1. JM says:

    My advice: Do not wait.

    Look for what you want in a man and when you find it let him know. If he doesn’t react then he almost certainly is not good enough for you. We are happy to approach a woman but we are not always looking. Maybe you need to get our attention, just enough of it, so that we can make the moves that should, rightly, be expected of us.

    • Rachel Henry says:

      Getting attention doesn’t seem to be much of an issue in all honesty, more so getting attention from the right kind of guy. But I get what you’re saying, it’s hard to not wait when you never know when you’ll meet the right person those things kind of “just happen” unless someone plays matchmaker for you which I’m pretty sure you know I’m not a fan of lol 🙂 But I have no problem letting someone know that they seem to possess what I want in a man when I see the potential.

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